Wednesday, July 13, 2005
Dusty Old Present From a Beloved Friend :D
I just happened to open my old mail box, I don't know why, but I just did. Suprisingly my Eyes caught an email, sent to me exactly on my birthday, an email from a new old friend... Hahaha. I remember correctly his e-mail become a concurrence of my conclusion of what happened to me that time... Hahaha..(sigh)
But really, I did failed to say those words that time, and got frustrated. And you know what? Instead said something nice, I teribly badly hurt her feeling and got another present, so called no-sms-for-me-ever-in-her-life.... You see, I always tried not to owe someone something. but when I did, I always tried to paid it in time. I don't want this matter become a burden when I die later. Anyway, I was hoping I'll be "free" and released from those feeling, yet because of that, I did make a "bond" to her, a bond of guilty feeling. I did told her I'll make it up some day though up till now, I still don't know how... (Probably i should ask her how, but I think I knew her answer, which is probably....).
Back to the main point, the present I had from him really give me quite a relieved for everything happened back then...So I just wanna say, before I forgot... Thanks Stef... really...thank you...
I was confused at that time, I knew it from the start and I did made a choice long time before that day, but I hadn't decide any until couple days later when another friend reminded me... So thanks Stef for your present... :D.
Just like I said, "I will be a stepped rock for other people, so my misery will be other people luck and I was miserable and yet content with those before, why shouldn't it be different now? That will always be my part of act... :D"
Stef Message:
Someday I can love someone the way that I loved but you will never be loved again the way that I did
Here's the answer to the question on what to prefer:
....The one who loves you or the one you love...
....This is also for those who are waiting for theperson they love to love them back openly, to those who are looking for love and those who know that their love is not meant to be...
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.
Go for the person of deeds and not for the one of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the one you love but the one whom loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of oureveryday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
Others are lucky to have an actual fairy tale unfoldin their lives, when they find that this is the significant other they've long been waiting for...
However, for some, the sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship...but don't be so bitter about it! For it is a kind of FRIENDSHIP that will last for a LIFETIME!!! We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end upbeing sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible, and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.
And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a life time.
"When I lost you, I was the one who loved you most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you but you will never be loved again the way that I did".
Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the reason it was posted! People come into your life for a reason, a season or a life time. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do...
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definitely... people come to our life for a reason though we never realise it..silly huh how we people trying hard to learn something big but never figure the things out just right in front of us ?? well then read Five People U Meet in Heaven.. i think u gonna like it... it's about there's nothing vain in our life... though we feel it was just a mess
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